Paris Nights and New York Mornings

Greetings!  It's Tuesday!  Exciting, right? Hmm... Personally, I think that Tuesday is more difficult than Monday. Your work/school week has resumed but it's day 2 of 5 (as opposed to say 3, 4, or 5 of 5), so it still feels like the weekend is ages away. Even on a 3 day holiday weekend like I just had.  Even more so when winter isn't quite ready to give way to spring! So how do we survive?!  Well, besides praying, saying positive affirmations and making prioritization lists, I like to put on my headphones at my desk at work and just groove as I get through the day.  I also like to take mental breaks and daydream about world travel.  I want to see the world and the number of places to see grows daily!  On my way in to work today, I had my iPod on shuffle and one of my favorite songs came on by one of my favorite artists, UK musician Corinne Bailey Rae.  It totally combines my musical affinity + world travel desire.  What song is it?!  Why, it's "Paris Nights and New York Mornings"!  I've kindly included the video below for your viewing pleasure:

Paris Nights and New York Mornings (video) by Corinne Bailey Rae

Album: The Sea

I just love the concept of this song.  Can you imagine an adventurous night (perhaps a romantic rendezvous) in Paris and then waking up in the cool city of New York?  Though I can only count on one hand the number of times I've visited either cities, I just love the vibe of both.  You'll probably see those cities appear in a world crush feature VERY soon (so stay tuned!).  But really, just imagine it.  Taking a cruise on the Seine River at night (which you can do and hit all the tourist sights, I'll include those links in my Paris feature), walking down the illuminated Avenue des Champs-Élysées, embracing the sacred history of the historic Notre Dame, taking in the local night charm or dancing away in the night life, Paris is that city where romance, history, and an almost calm ambiance unite!

Let's take it over to New York.  I really like NYC.  Central Park.  All the beautiful attractions.  Coffee shops.  Finding non-touristy hot spots.  The fast pace.  Sigh!  J'adore Paris et NYC.  Take me away, stat!   Anyway, enough babbling (and the fact that it's taking entirely too long to get this blog published!).  Corinne Bailey Rae is an incredible artist and musician, so if you ever need a song to fill in your life's soundtrack, be sure to check her out! I won't link to all of her YouTube clips but here a few performances:

 

 Paris Nights and New York Mornings - live in Williamsburg

Bonus:  Another favorite video of mine:  I'd Like To- Corinne Bailey Rae (video)

 Sidenote: I just ADORE Corinne's hair!  My hair crush :-)

Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/corinnebaileyrae
Official Web: http://corinnebaileyrae.com/
Twitter: @CorinneBRae
 

Saturday Night Vibes

So it's Saturday night and I'm not at a lounge or a club!  Now, if you know me, that's totally NOT a surprise.  Haha, you could say I'm more of the low-key, just chill type.  While that is my general vibe, it's also winter.  Somehow getting dolled up just seems easier when it's warmer.  Plus I just love daylight, so spring and summer tend to be the times when I'm game for more of the evening/night-ish life.  But I can't be the only one right?  I feel like social media is deceptive (well actually it's completely deceptive) because people only tend to post when they're shining or having a really great time.  At least that's my approach and those of my friends/followers/etc on these networks.  My guess is there are more people actually just relaxing and staying IN versus going out.  Just a hunch!  Now, I know many of my connects are married or parents now, so there isn't really that desire to party like before.  But what about the single peeps like me?  Am I the only one in relax mode?
 
Well, even if I am, it's fine by me.  Last year, I started reading "Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass" by Mandy Hale and it's been eye-opening.  Known as "The Single Woman", Hale's book is such a well-crafted message about self-love.  A lot of single-girl books tend to try to give you tips on how to get a new guy or even straight up male bash.  Not this book!  It's totally about loving and improving yourself and NOT worrying about finding the next guy/future boyfriend/husband, etc. and I dig that 100%.  As I mentioned, I am single and it's not a negative.  You need to love and appreciate your own company before anyone else will.  A guy doesn't define me anymore than a job or a car or any material possession would.  I'm all about that self-loving, happy and healthy life!  I strongly encourage all women to read it since getting over breakups (even if you initiated it) are tough.  There's light at the end of the tunnel and just like your story isn't defined by a relationship, that's not the end either.
 
So how am I feeling?  Great!  I've been working on that healthier me.  I've been eating better (no chocolate, pity party binges over here), working out (the best way to clear your head), taking up new interests (studying French almost daily now!) and most importantly, being more positive and loving the things that make me...ME!  Just because people don't see your bright qualities doesn't mean they don't exist.  Duh!  So, shine bright for you!  This is not about karma or making somebody regret what they lost by not cherishing you.  Their loss is YOUR gain for the future and as my girl Natasha Bedingfield so beautifully sings "the rest is still unwritten."  So chin up and if you're flying solo at home on this Saturday, rest assured, you're not the only one! 
 

Natasha Bedingfield- Single (from the album "Unwritten")

 
P.S.  If you're liking what you're reading or have any feedback, comments are welcome :-)

It's here! Valentine's Day

February 14th. Perhaps one of the most stressful days of the year for some people.  A day that is supposed to symbolize love yet is often met with such derision and hate.  So what’s the deal?!  My theory is that some ladies like this day because they like to feel *extra* special.  The sales industry sides with that theory what with all the flowers, cards, candy, bears, balloons, and romantic date offerings.  Some guys don’t like this day because it seems like a lot of work and it feels more obligatory than romance.  I can understand that point, though I think it’s all in perspective.  My take?  Personally, I don’t mind Valentine’s Day.  Sure, it’s a show-and-tell type of affair but that can work a couple ways.  1) Showing off and telling of all the tokens of love you’ve received or 2) Showing and telling your mate what they mean to you.  I like the latter.  I also don’t think it should just be guys doing everything for the ladies.  Years ago, I actually planned a really nice evening (not in a restaurant) for my ex-bf only to be stood up (hence the word ex).  Quick sidebar: Ladies, if he’s not even calling you on that day as he normally would, please pause.  The signs of cheating are usually there and it starts with “baby” lies and disappearing acts just like that.  Not saying that’s always the case but well, sometimes actions speak louder than words.  You live and you learn!

But I digress!   I think V-Day should be a day of love and affection for the pair of you using all of the “commercialized” tools afforded to you.  If you’re against the restaurant idea (personally, I’m not a fan because it’s often crowded and overly expensive for underwhelming cuisine), than why not have a nice lunch/dinner together at home?  A card speaks a 1,000 words yet is so inexpensive.  I think guys who use the excuse “it’s too commercial” only get a pass if they treat their woman special throughout the year (which they should be, don’t settle for less!).  In fact, I’d rather have a surprise, special day with my mate on March 17th (or any random date) than Feb 14th because of the fact it’s unexpected BUT a card on V-Day is still sweet and really doesn’t require much.  Just the ability to select a card, buy the card and seal an envelope!

As for the whole S.A.D. (Singles Awareness Day) thing, I say bump that! There’s nothing to be sad about.  Live your life as normal.  If you’re single on this day, so what?  Yes, you will see more displays than usual but if I felt bad every time I saw happy couples, I’d be wallowing.  Know that if you go out to a restaurant on Valentine’s Day, there will be more couples than usual. So either skip that scene or go out with your friends instead. Galentines/Palentines come to mind! I can guarantee you might actually be having more fun than some of these couples. Another thing, don’t go dressing in black.  Why should you be toned down?  Rock your favorite beautiful colors.  If red is it, then go for it!  

Happy Valentine’s Day. Happy Friday.  Happy Feb 14th.  Happy normal day.  Whatever today means to you, just be happy!

Ice Cream Everyday: How Sweet It Is!

Tuesday is the day that new music is released in the U.S., so I’ve decided to make this a day that I spotlight some good tunes that I enjoy. It likely won’t be a new release, as I like to enjoy some music for a good while before giving it a grade so to speak. 

The spotlight today is on a relatively new release from my girl Amel Larrieux. I ADORE Amel and musically, she can’t steer me wrong. I’ve been a massive fan since ‘95 and the Groove Theory duo days (90s R&B was some of THE best) and her previous solo albums (Infinite Possibilities, Bravebird, Morning, Lovely Standards) and every other musical release or collaboration she’s been a part of.  She is like musical poetry, singing about the news, the blues, and simply: LIFE.  Her album Infinite Possibilities still remains my soul's "perspective soundtrack" to this day. Fast forward to now and her latest album “Ice Cream Everyday” is out in all formats now and I’d say you definitely should check it out! If you want an album that you can just play all the way through while you’re working, chilling, driving, whatever, this is it!

Lead single “Afraid” is just too cool. Detailing the rush of emotions you feel when you first meet someone and feel that butterflies-i think i’m in love-i see nobody but us- feeling, this song is beautifully crafted whether you are in love, out of love, or in-between. It’s mid-tempo and certainly has that soulful Adult Contemporary vibe. “Wherever you are is wherever I have to be..” I know I’ve definitely felt that feeling before. Ahh, the memories ;-) Check it out here:

 

Also included in my top 5 favorite tracks (it was tough to pick a top 5):

You Don’t See Me (words can not describe how much I love this song!!! Can we say my love life? Ha!)

 

Moment to Reflect (if only we all did that before acting/reacting)

Ur the Shhh

A Million Sapphires
I Do Take (that unconditional love...yes!)

Don't Let Me Down (I know that's 7 songs but technically this was a single before the album release and really how I feel...so listen up gentlemen!)

 

 

Lyrically, I love that Amel just sings about life! Whether it’s love in all it’s forms or experiences that comprise our lives, perspectives, and being, the messages are relatable and truly about life. Amel and her team capture it all so beautifully. Oh and that voice and delivery! So sweet yet powerful and poetic!

Records are hot but Amel herself is simply incredible LIVE! She is such an engaging artist and musician and she fully allows the audience to see her personality, which is so awesomely cool by the way. I’ve had the opportunity to see her live and can definitely attest. It’s a true musically experience. Amel, you’re the truth! She’s on tour now, so if you’ve got the opportunity, definitely check her out! For my DC lovebirds, she will be at The Howard Theater on Friday, February 14 for two shows!

Here’s a throwback photo when I attended a show almost 4 years ago and I got to meet this very beautiful lady. Sidebar: I can’t believe it’s been that long.  Don't laugh at my attire.  Shout out to the early days of my natural hair journey/transitioning phase! 

2010 in VA!  I had a blast and Amel was so kind to take this photo with me :-)

Much love, respect, and blessings to Amel, her family and Team Blisslife!

Get connected with Amel here:
Facebook:http://www.facebook.com/amellarrieux
Twitter: @amellarrieux
Team Blisslife on Twitter: Team BlissLife

2013- Ice Cream Every Day

2007- Lovely Standards

2006- Morning

2004- Bravebird

2000- Infinite Possibilities

Travel Retrospect: London

#WCW-  Well for me, this is WORLD Crush Wednesday, as in places I’ve visited or want to visit across the globe.  Travel back with me a few months to late November/early December 2013 when I took my first trip to Europe.  That trip included 3 cities and a principality but for this post, I will reflect on one of my childhood dream cities of London!

 

Why the adoration for London (and England) prior to visiting? Let me count the ways! As a youngster, I always *tried* to emulate the British accent. I thought I sounded pretty good but something tells me not to actually try testing that accent. So there’s that. Additionally, some of my favorite pop artists are from the UK: Sugababes, Craig David, Alesha Dixon, Leona Lewis, Jay Sean, and Jamelia just to name a few. Not to mention my favorite soul acts like Corinne Bailey Rae, Adele, Emeli Sande, Amy Winehouse and the incomparable Sade! If the music weren’t enough, I’ve always admired the diversity within the culture. It’s not all about black and white. The blend is incredible! With my West African roots, I’ll always have an appreciate for the acceptance of so many cultures.   Last, but absolutely not least, football!!! Y’all know I love football (or soccer as it is in the U.S.) and my favorite league is England’s Premier League. While I’m so thankful to have cable access to watch matches, I love that football in England (like so many other countries across the globe) reigns supreme. Like I bet I could strike up a conversation about it just walking around. Do I sound like a fan yet?

Now don’t get me wrong, everything I just mentioned is all good and well, but nothing compares to actually being there. So I had the opportunity to spend about 2 days in London--not nearly as long as I would have wanted (clearly!) but enough for me to finally walk the streets (and ride the tube) and get a taste. So what was my “appetizer” journey like? Read on…

So my European getaway began with an early arrival (and I do mean early) at London’s famed Heathrow Airport. Bleary-eyed as I was, I was finally here! After clearing all the procedural entry tasks inside the airport, I had my first opportunity to buy a train ticket (in GBP or pounds, for my layfolk) to take me into the town. First stop, Paddington Station for a proper English breakfast!

That first day I was extremely jet lagged as I basically did not sleep on that 7.5 hour flight, so the big highlight was lots of tube riding. What’s the tube? Why it is only the cool British way to say the subway or metro rail. The first time I spotted a tube map, I was extremely confused but by the end of my time there, it all made sense. Seriously, it’s really not too bad. Just pay attention and ask for help before entering the system. Because, like any major city in the U.S. (and in Paris as I learned), when it’s rush hour, people have places TO GO. You don’t want to be that person standing around helplessly while people are rushing about, do you? So just study the map and ask ahead of entering and you’ll be fine and in chill mode as I was…

OK, I’m not going to give you a rundown of each step I took because as I said my trip was abbreviated. Here are some highlights (and photos):

Tourist attractions:  River Thames, London Eye, London Pier, London Bridge

 Beautiful River Thames

 

London Eye

 London Pier ...I love this city!

London Bridge

Harrods: I could have an entire post all about Harrods. My goodness, where do I even begin?  Just a few snippets of winter time at Harrods. 

   

Holiday market:

 who doesn't love a carousel?

It's not a winter holiday without Gingerbread!

Yum!

Possibly the largest Wok ever?  P.S. The guy serving was so sweet :-) Hey Poland!

Random sights that made me smile:

 Barclays runs the world!

Into the Underground we go!



Busy streets, bustling buses

Beautiful sunset on a December evening

Now for all the fun I had there is still more on my list. Not complaining because that is what next trips are for! I’m just so thankful for the opportunity to finally have gotten to go to London. There is lots on my wish list including going to a live music concert/show and of course a football match.  Arsenal F.C. baby!  Gunners #1 :-)  

Until we meet again London, stay charming!

The struggle, the progress

Transformation Tuesday!

“Without a struggle, there can be no progress.”  - Frederick Douglass

I saw this quote on Instagram this morning and thought about how applicable it really is to our lives.  In anything that you wish to move upward to, a career, better health, etc., it often takes a bit of struggle, rejection, extra perseverance or all of the above.  For this post, the way this quote relates is on my healthy makeover journey.

So as I told you previously, this year is the year of difference.  I’m finally ready to be truly confident and let my voice be heard!  One way is to improve my health and also get more fit.  I’m encouraged because I’m already seeing the progress!  I’ve shed a few pounds, my clothes fit differently, I have more energy, my attitude and outlook have improved dramatically.  I can also feel the abs and oblique muscles taking shape and that definitely makes me happy!  Even if no one else sees it *YET*, I see it and that’s certainly motivation for me to keep going.  So OK, that’s the progress.  What’s the struggle, you ask?  Those darn jump lunges, burpees, high knees, and squat jumps, to name a few! LOL  Clearly I’ve still not made complete peace with those just yet.  I’m getting better at pushing my body through these training sessions but let me tell you, it’s not easy.  When those muscles start burning and my mind realizes that there’s only 15 more seconds or only 10 more reps to go, it seems like I falter.  But will I give up?  Absolutely not!  Because no struggle, no progress.  

No matter what you’re pushing through, just know that the struggle means you’re getting that much closer to your goal.  Stay motivated and affirm that YOU CAN DO THIS! 

So I'm writing this while...

So I'm actually writing this blog post during the Superbowl. Crazy!  For an NFL fan, this is game is literally painful to watch.  Coming into this particular game, I was pretty disinterested as I'm not a fan of the Seattle Seahawks or the Denver Broncos (Baltimore Ravens for life!) but hey, it's the Superbowl and you have to cheer for a team.  So I chose the Broncos because I think Peyton's a great guy and athlete and I'd have loved to see him get championship ring # 2 and be the first to do so with two different teams.  Well as I'm writing, the score is 36-7 at the end of the 3rd quarter.  I want to hold out hope that the Broncos can make this competitive.  After all, anything is possible but man, oh man, they're going to need to WORK.

 As for the other part of the Superbowl event, the halftime show and commercials, I was absolutely impressed by Bruno Mars and his whole set.  With so many viewers of this game, it's refreshing to see an entertaining set that's clean and actually just fun.  Bruno's vocals, band, and artistry were on point. I was jamming to my favorite song "Treasure" and was so touched when he performed "Just the Way You Are" in dedication to military personnel and their loved ones.   To quote the kids, HE DID THAT!  He held his own without needing the Red Hot Chili Peppers, like some doubters thought.  True artist!  The commercials, on the other hand, are pretty lackluster.  To be fair, I typically tune out of commercials anyway but I just don't find these that interesting.  Combined with this game, you can see why I'm writing blogs instead of being enthusiastic about the game.

Now that the Superbowl is here (and basically gone)...bring on Brazil and the World Cup!!!  Granted some Superbowl games have been very entertaining (ahem, last year when the Baltimore Ravens took care of business and won) but absolutely nothing compares to seeing athletes represent their country. That's why I also love the Olympics!  Besides, soccer is just so beautiful to watch.  If you don't believe me, just wait until the World Cup comes on.  You'll see :-)  I'll write a future post breaking it all down, sharing my favorite teams, and predictions. 

Update (last one because I'm signing off of this blog and this game), the score is 43-8.  Most lopsided Superbowl score in history?  Maybe not, but I'd say it's getting close. 

Oh well, you win some, you lose some.  I'm going to get ready for the week... I'll be back soon!